About

Hello, I’m Attila and I run SelfChatter.
I first started reading psychology books as a teenager. Only later did I see that my interest in psychology, self-development, and inner work wasn’t a hobby but also a search.
In my late twenties, I began to admit that I was suffering. By my mid-thirties, I had “the everything” – the degrees, the good job, the loving partner, my own flat, good prospects. And then I lost “the everything,” fell into depression, and my search for the reasons for my suffering got stronger. I dived into developmental psychology, went to retreats, meditated, discovered C.G. Jung – and the list goes on.
You get it. I had the menu. But nothing really brought relief. I knew what I wanted was to live out of what we usually call the true, or authentic, self – yet I kept losing this vision. Until I realized I had a direction problem. No new thing I do or learn will fix me. Having my own vision of who I really am through an ever-present self-direction, that does. I understand now that needing to let myself have more access to my true self is a natural step in the process, and so is the clarity about why it matters. Many of us are going through the same, and luckily, I am nothing special.
SelfChatter grew out of this realization and through living by it. And I believe many of us carry this block, for very strong reasons.
My long-standing wish is that users will, at some point, not need SelfChatter any more.
About SelfChatter
SelfChatter isn’t another thing to fix yourself with. It’s a place that helps you have your own self-direction. If you want to know more about how SelfChatter works once you register, see the What is SelfChatter page.