The deep oneness I am looking for
Yes, by the deep oneness I am looking for I probably think of the same thing as you do. This kind, gentle, joyful, happy state of being where I feel that I am totally connected with something. I could give...
I don’t know what I want from life
“I don’t know what I want from life because somewhere along the way I got used to the idea that I cannot get what I really want.” If this thought resonates with you then this post may be valuable to...
Conscious manifestation: why doesn’t it work for me?
I assume that the reason you are reading this article is because you heard of conscious manifestation, and probably even tried it, but you did not yet have much ‘success’ with it. For all the reasons, the subject of conscious...
No motivation to thrive
“The reason why I have no motivation to thrive is that I do not think that it is worth it anymore.” If this thought resonates with you then this post may be for you.The dependency trap“My will to thrive is...
How do I start to develop healthy limits?
There are many articles, lists, and how-to guides on how to set healthy limits and what those may be. Yet, most of us struggle to set and keep those limits. Why is that? This article discusses some of the possible...
Quick help for self-observation
FearShameAngerI feel like a victim.SadnessConfusionPanicI don’t know what I am feeling.I am muted What it is and its usageThis is a quick list that you can use to help yourself identify what you are feeling or thinking. Self-observation only works...
My consciousness and me
My consciousness and meMy consciousness is me in fact. If I have this image that there is my consciousness and there is me, then I am separating myself from consciousness. What a trick. ‘Me’, trying to convince myself that I...
My independent state of mind
Become mentally and emotionally free, and have a strong sense of Self. Have the level of individuation that I can correct myself, calm myself, make decisions from my inner knowing, and so on. The majority of us – either consciously...
Adrenalized lifestyle
Most people in westernized countries live an adrenalized lifestyle. It is so widespread and so widely accepted that we do not even know that we do it, why we do it, and how destructive, and useless it is. Addicted to adrenalineYes,...
How to forgive the other person
Forgiving has much more to do with me than with the other person.The English word forgive is pretty descriptive, because what I do is ‘give back’. When I can get to that point where I am not emotionally attached to...