I want to be better than others
I want to be better than others. Why? Below is an ideation of its causes. If you are coming to the realization that this is a core problem of yours then this post may help you to move closer to...
Why can’t I achieve what I want?
“The reason why I can’t achieve what I want is that I actually don’t think at my core that this is good enough for me.” If this resonates with you then this post may be for you. It takes courage,...
Why can’t I relax?
Does this resonate with you? “I can’t relax because that would mean that I had to give up my present life.”I am trying to phrase the same thing in another way: “I am afraid to relax because then I would...
The deep oneness I am looking for
Yes, by the deep oneness I am looking for I probably think of the same thing as you do. This kind, gentle, joyful, happy state of being where I feel that I am totally connected with something. I could give...
I don’t know what I want from life
“I don’t know what I want from life because somewhere along the way I got used to the idea that I cannot get what I really want.” If this thought resonates with you then this post may be valuable to...
No motivation to thrive
“The reason why I have no motivation to thrive is that I do not think that it is worth it anymore.” If this thought resonates with you then this post may be for you.The dependency trap“My will to thrive is...
Quick help for self-observation
FearShameAngerI feel like a victim.SadnessConfusionPanicI don’t know what I am feeling.I am muted What it is and its usageThis is a quick list that you can use to help yourself identify what you are feeling or thinking. Self-observation only works...
I have been waiting all my life
Do these statements resonate with you? “I feel I have been waiting all my life.” “I live a muted life and I just don’t know why.” “Why don’t I get what I want?” Then this article may be for you....
My consciousness and me
My consciousness and meMy consciousness is me in fact. If I have this image that there is my consciousness and there is me, then I am separating myself from consciousness. What a trick. ‘Me’, trying to convince myself that I...
The connection between my depression and laziness
Does this resonate with you?“I get lazy because if I had to be active then the pain behind my depression would be too great.”Described in a different way: “If I had to work ( especially do things that I don’t...