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  • Why don’t I want to work anymore?

    Self-inquiry exercises • Anger
    “There is nothing wrong with me actually. The reason I dislike my work is because inside I know how toxic the world of work has become by... Read more →
  • Why are people mean to me?

    Self-inquiry exercises • Anger
    “The reason why people are mean to me has to do with my severe problem of my boundaries.” If this resonates with you, then this... Read more →
  • Why do I let people betray me?

    Self-inquiry exercises • Independence
    “I let people betray me because I am afraid of independence.” If this resonates with you, then this self-inquiry exercise may be... Read more →
  • Why don’t I have self-confidence?

    Self-inquiry exercises • Confidence
    “I don’t have self-confidence because I am afraid. What am I afraid of?” If this resonates with you, then this self-inquiry... Read more →
  • Why am I afraid to win?

    Self-inquiry exercises • Fear
    “I want to change from a mindset of hardships to a mindset of accepting success.” If this resonates with you, then this self-inquiry... Read more →
  • Why am I constantly tired?

    Self-inquiry exercises • Independence
    “I am constantly tired because I am going through a profound change.” If this resonates with you, then this self-inquiry exercise... Read more →
  • Self-observation on my anxiety

    Self-inquiry exercises • Anxiety
    “I realize my anxiety is acting as some kind of motivation in my life. It is helping me to go on.” If this resonates with you, then... Read more →
  • Why am I not successful enough?

    Self-inquiry exercises • Fear
    “The success I wish for myself is most probably blocked by my fear.” If this resonates with you, then this self-inquiry exercise may... Read more →
  • How self-observation works

    Essays & tools • Independence
    In self-observation, I look at my own self. I look at my thoughts, emotions, beliefs, my life with an unbiased, non-judgmental way. Self-observation... Read more →
  • Why am I always in a hurry?

    Self-inquiry exercises • Confidence
    “Strangely, it appears to me that the reason I am always in a hurry is because I have a lack of trust.” If this resonates with you,... Read more →